Relationship : before commitment and after .

Relationship is itself a big word , it’s a connection between two souls be it physical , positive negative .so this is a beautiful phase in the beginning when they don’t have any kinds of interference because it’s the most Lubby dubby one .people like each other involvement give most of the time to each other and then make sure they both are completely comfortable to each other .

But then comes a phase where they need to take it forward and that involves a big word commitment, so they need to reach to a conclusion where they need to give a certain name to a relationship and since they are sure that they like each other’s company so they do enter into the phase of commitment. Which eventually looks very much beautiful but then slowly their comes a time when opposite gender , be it anyone tries to create differences by taking his own space or expecting his own space while he had forgotten when he was trying to be so so much attached when there was average intimacy and all kinds of involvement but now the person has considered you your everything he needs his own space out of blue, the opposite person tries to see the flaws , see the future with him and points things which are expected to be both ways to be with each other , but then it’s being considered bossy or ruling my own life . And also said the problem always arise from only one end . The other partner Off-course can me wrong , also can have certain flaws which needs to be corrected but then it’s being give a name as a boundation to their freedom. This starts creating the difference as when the efforts are not being matched from both end .

Certain times certain things are highlighted to retain and let it work but it’s always again highlighted that let me live my own life , okay accepted where was ur life when you were so much involved in each other where were your priorities, where was your own space that you feel you need now . So it’s the best thing if you need this casual approach please be clear it from the beginning and don’t just run behind her to drain her emotionally for commitment . Because if you don’t know the meaning and you are not able to do so, if you are keep her priority, and that way you can settle up things and plan future . Present is only based on future so if you are not making you present beautiful how you can expect future to be .

Think before you jump in , because for you that person is everything which is not wrong again , which is her choice and Off-course not your mistake too , but that’s how she defines her priorities and love .

Respect her priorities and just take stand for her before it’s too late and you regret the same .