Dealing Menatal Illness

Life humbles you , You grow old , you analyse things , you understand love is not everything, and only the one thing , even though you try everything for your partner there will still be something lack behind , and you will forever not understand that what is that something.

I have been experienced enough to understand every level of people to be very frank ,be it introvert guy , extrovert , ambitious. The core thing which I realised which is important though in every relationship and for me is : To take stand to be there not mentally, but your presence should include the focus and determination in the relationship that you are willing to take it forward .I have done several mistakes in my past and still doing , I fall everyday and rise in the hope that next day is gonna be beautiful, and I know it will be I have invested a lot in every relationship, with just one expectation just be there in my decisions , may expectation itself is a wrong word , if you love someone , but when u deeply give yourself everything to someone you feel that atleast the courage to stand for my all highs and lows should be appreciated.

But this generation is so fucked up ! We don’t understand the value of love including me , we feel if we don’t have no problem then we can easily move on . Comeon you can buy the circumstances will be really bad , it’s unhealed wounds , experiences which will hamper the next relationship for sure .

Communicate , communicate what eve is bothering you , and most important don’t make false promises , if u can’t do it please stay it upfront don’t give any false hopes , it takes a lot of time for a broken heart to trust someone, sometimes it impacts mentally that much that u need a psychiatric to deal which is not bad though .

Still I will suggest which I learnt from my younger siblings who are in 98’s born and which is not bad though to understand what’s getting bad with this generation.everyone to be strong enough to first prioritise yourself , keep a distance , don’t discuss everything your past , Untill u are not sure we not sure what is their mindset, how they portrait you in their mind when they listen you story .

Keep distance a healthy one so if you fight or any argument happens , you are strong itself to de instead of getting more anxiety and more intolerant.

It’s not hard to, even I feel let’s try altogether ❤️🧿