Parvati Pharswan

Love and self respect

There is a beautiful saying which our parents used to tell us everyday beta ji once you are a part of the other family you owe everything of them. You need to say yes to your partner and support him irrespective of anything .

Well I believe is this applicable in today’s era ??

The answer is going to be straight no….Todays generation love is different the meaning entirely hold a different value and there is mutual respect in both people ideas, opinions , plans then it makes a perfect understanding.

Self respect is a way very important topic to be discussed and kept in mind irrespective of a man or women , women yes why important because initial days they were told they can only do household work and just take care of babies .but these myths have been proved wrong now.

A women equally deserves love and respect , as a man do, even if you love ur partner , spouse , you should always love her , support her , make her as your priority, be available for her , cheer her up!She is already doing a lot for you , in terms of convincing to her family about you, managing your stress, ups and down .The only thing she deserves is equal love and support …

Heartbreak !!

There is a famous quote “it’s not always you would need to get a closure . The actions are enough to move on“

Relationship , A tough thing to handle, maintain and to always make it beautiful, You can fall in love easily but you cannot ever come out of a heartbreak smoothly, it’s just you need to accept and move on considering the fact that “life doesn’t stops here we have families , friends to take care of” .

Life is unpredictable , we should cherish each and every moment !!

Destiny a “destination”

Yes we heard it correctly , the path to our density should be uniquely ours . Some things are definitely not on our hands indeed yes !! However upto some extent but you control your destiny by establishing your goals and Career in every filed intact in your own life . All you need is your dedication towards a certain goal the intentions with a pure heart , hell lot of sacrifices and you can create your own world yes A happiness world !

People loose loved ones, call it a part of their destiny, or naming it the main reason they had to suffer, people struggle in childhood due to lack of love, how are they being raised , not able to get the desired love . It’s just we could say deep thought topic but the one thing should always be in our minds no matter whatever it happens we need to deal with it . We came into the world as an individual soul same way we are responsible for everything happening in our life starting from the time we get up till we go to sleep.

Taking and making destiny into a positive way ahead can flourish your life , however just cribing and and cursing yourself naming it as a part of destiny van only make you weak , and welcome other kinds of mental health ness .

We need to get up !! We need to shine , we make others smile , that’s the best gratitude one can ever have . Try finding happiness in every single thing you see , you feel, you get !! Tough to say indeed but yes that’s how it is .

Kids , loosing their mother at the age of 8 and then father after some years and then who is there for them ? What you call destiny could be yeah!! But what next they need to survive they need to wake up they need to see the world again n survive yeah!! Hence we can just do our Karma, we can do whatever makes us , n others who needs happy , rest we need to leave it . That’s the whole point we only will be creating our destiny and we will be destroying it.

Don’t be weak !! Gear up and yes you are strong and beautiful !!

Pandemic Era

It’s been almost a time, when we started feeling that we are mentally free , without any kind of fear be it stepping outside , be it any kind of steps which we are taking in our lives from morning till night!

Corona virus has changed a lot in each one of our lives , in many ways be it personal , professional , and be it a social life. We are no more cautious for ourselves , for our loved ones , we know the pain of losing our loved ones , we have seen bodies buried up , we have seen the toughest times of our life we could say. Even though the pain is still not over we still are struggling with mental health, we don’t know when we can smile , live freely specially a person like me who is so much jolly, frank who loves expressing presenting , and always opened for learning and sharing views .

Tough time we know , it will take time and we need to be stronger . And we need to handle it by our own ways .

Hope it all goes to the best possible ways .and we can again live beautiful lives .