Parvati Pharswan

Peace : Within yourself

In today’s hustling world we see lots of negativity around us.

So how do we get the positivity, we try working out, hanging out with friends, meditation, still something still bothers us .why ???

It’s because we feel these things helped everyone this might work on us but No we should always remember, what was applicable for others not necessarily will work for us as well, we should always prioritise our own self peace and that will come within ourself. Whatever makes us happy if thats is just painting, dancing or simply sleeping too.

Balancing in life is very much important , it gives not only a proper discipline to us but also our lifestyle, our way of thinking, and leads to a peaceful, and positive life.There may be situations we might extremely low be it from past traumatic experiences, family issues , affairs or current relationships these will affect our current day to day life , and those days times we feel doing nothing and just thinking about it .. but what’s next that main important the very next thing that as soon comes to our mind , we immediately should think so now, its high time we need to gear up again !! And shine like a ⭐️

So here its for everyone trust yourself first, Peace is nowhere its within you !! Love yourself, and believe me Life is beautiful 😍

Morning Routine🌸

Starting a day with the positive mindset is really important for all of us to know and believe, it not only impacts out whole day but also balances our inner body and soul. Somedays we might not feel good and may be you know having the feeling of being lost and knowing the fact it can really bother our whole routine. We can just make sure to not let the feeling come.

For that instance we can either do things which motivates, makes us happy soothes our soul or mind. Like I always try to play some devotional music as it enhances positivity in my body and soul amd then followed by your daily routine. This way we can feel empowered for the whole day and we can create and spread positivity both.

Learning yoga is a beautiful way of balancing the physical body and soul. Even i am still trying to opt for it and always fail but yea I genuinely feel we should practice Yoga as its derived from ancient time and is the pure form .

Live your life , stay happy stay Healthy 🙏🏻

have a beautiful a morning everyday😃♥️🌸🌸

My morning routine🏋️‍♀️

Consistency!

People will come and go, problems will come and go, only one will be consistent and thats YOU ,

So know your self worth , stop waisting your time to proove for others . This will only deteriorate you and your confidence level.

Love yourself, and just focus on Yourself 💕

Relationships Nowadays!

My mom once told me, the person who loves you will not keep you in the position to loose you, and that really hit me badly..

Ups and downs are in every relationship, its just how crystal and clear you are about your thoughts , How much disciplined you are in your everday life for any particular thing, from making your own bed till the time about being consistent for you relation. Even if you are not talking or having fights .There is indeed different level of insecurity it happens but that doesnt means you will loose youself, to make your partner jealous!!

You need to have your own self respect first , love yourself first, keep your self understanding first and then expect loyalty… does god stopped making such creatures now??

I know the mistakes are not everytime one sided, but what is very much important is like , you should not degrade your self , that you gonaaa degrade yourself , not talking doesnt means, that you can date a person or whatever to make ur partner jealous !!

Remember!!!!

Personality: An unbroken series of successful Gesture

Well, This is really my favourite blog or topic choosen for today related to personality, for me personality is something which is derived from you , You feeel what you are and you are confident about it . It depicts your behaviour, your characterstics, your nature, way of thinking and infact much more .You dont know sometimes how to react in some situations where you find situations messed up and you have to compromise on ur behaviour, or personality.

I am talking about personal relationship, where we see lots of differences traits between partner then you have one choice either to downgrade your behaviour, which you might not like specifically a perosn like me wont agree or to end up, just showing whats ur true personality which itslef a positive and great gesture .

Life becomes so much challenging sometimes and you know this not only happens in personal relationships, but also in workplaces, in families, and sometimes in social places too, when you try to show up or open up yoursekf you are being judged to much by being either too frank or fake . Or if you don’t speak up then you are either arrogant or simply disrespectful.

But one thing for sure remains constant is what you think as an individual about that particular thing, if you feel that the effect of your behaviour or personality is affecting the other person or , that particular task or meeting anything in a positive way its the ‘beautiful’ if not then you shouldn’t worry or give a dam because at the end of the only thing what matters us YOU .

You know you are beautiful, You are strong , you have beautiful smile, you attract positivity, you are kind , you attract kindness and love too, so naturally you know things happen in a positive way .And people love you the way you are , even being diplomat, bossy sometimes, but atleast you know what you are , abd you maintain your all standards with all dignity and with pride . People try to learn lots of things from you and literally they wanna see upto you !!

Hence forth the important thing in our personality is our attitude, our behaviour, our mindset abd where it gets derived from is within You.And later confidence, smile, positivity, gets collected within it .

Rest all is secondary so cheers !!!and enjoy yourself, and your own self behaviour, and overall personality trust me it creates wonders ❤️

Feeling of Missing someone and need them badly

Gone are those days, when you used to feel someone can understand you, can be truely yours , can wake up for you, really thinks you are valuable. Is actually proud of you ,and your support , and existence, even love .

Life is just a roller coaster ride , no body knows ‘Kal ho na ho, we can miss them, Keep them in thoughts we tried complaining by being harsh,closer to them they didnt liked , we tried being far, ignoring them still they complained .

So rest is destiny…..Now we just dont complain n stay calm ,because its the only thing we can do….Now…

# late night thoughts ❤️

Music “outburst of soul”

Well it will not be wrong to say that music is everything atleast for today in this tough situation when we are facing so many ups and downs in our lives personally, professionally. Covid has changed our lives in every aspects where a body , sould wanted freedom there were days and are still where we have to be forcefully locked in a room , for the sake of our health and our loved ones . At that time music played a major role in nurturing our mental health.It triggers powerful emotions in pur mind through memories associated with it .It brings people together , it creates happiness, positivity in our lives and it personally gives a way to express who we are .

Sometimes if we cant find words to speak and we want our loved ones to understand and at that time music acts like a mediator.It unite people , families from different backgrounds and cultures. We have different forms of music in india and sometimes we dont even understand the lyrics but we still enjoy it because we love the music .

Music is important in creating concentration whether it is in work or it is sleep . It has that positivity that changes thte mind and make it peaceful. It not only imcreases focus but also redices our fatigue, it creates enthusiasm inside us while working out or any kinds kf excercises .Music gives us hope , inspires us and encourage us to nelieyin something.

It is our best friend indeed and is always there when we have no one around us and whenever we need it .Music is indeed a big part of our daily life and influences us in many ways .It would be really interesting to see if in future music can have bigger impact on us compared to medicine 🤗

Women Empowerment!!

Welll this is an extremely sensitive, powerful topic to write out for today . So here we gonna focus on the positive aspects of women empowerment because we know every topic does have pros and cons related to it.

Women Empowerment helps to create power in a women to live a respectful and happier life in society.Women empowerment focus on being a stronger, much way stronger whom we had just hide because of any numerous reasons be it family pressure, carrer , partner , or anything where we are related . Given an example we used to often hear and still hear that ladies can only managr kitchen things and they are not pro in other sectors . but see stats are in front of us , we have CEO’s , pilots , drivers etc where errors we thought women intervention was next to impossible so ideally we are breaking so called stereotypes!! So yeaah thats our world too we are and supposed to be treated similar the way men are being . We have seen how differnces were and still are created in some villages in terms of education for a girl child , including other facilities which clearly shows the discrimination and hence creates another level of impact on us . We are always been said you dont need to study much becuase at the end of the day you will others property why should we invest this much on you . This might sound little strange but yes eventually we have been raised including me from this society where I had to sacrifice my lots of dreams because of numerous reasons and yes I had to understand and support for my family for that decision. Initially i wanted to become doctor but then MBBS needs huge investment, and my parents couldnt afford it nobody could understand theur is 35+ hrs hard work hidden hence plan is out . Next is journalist but yea then again it’s challenging role ‘men’ are only meant to do that , you wont be able to handle that much pressure, criticism. Funny isn’t it! God knows today the level of pressure, and things i am handling i am sure it would be less .

Women empowerment encourages us to be liberal , independent, to be completely free from thoughts , pressures, and all kinds of obstacles that comes in our way .It alsi includes authority to taje decisions because when a wimen takes decisions she feels empowered. It helps us understand and feel that yes we can also do things in a beautiful and successful way just like we feel, think in our mind that only men can do .

So yeaaa to all beautiful ladies its our time we are competitors, we are soulmates, we are life partners, we are best friends and yes it just takes one beautiful word yet though strongest which is ‘attitude’ rest , we know whats our worth and yeaaa we can compete the whole world . With the positive smile and with our personality we can create miracles in our lives and to the world .

Cheers !!!!@parvatipharswan74

Toxic relationship

This is quite a famous headline we get to know everywhere , This can be with a friend , partner, between your family members or people around you where you put your complete efforts and you really want that from your end not for just the sake of it but also you want that person to be there in your life.However it never turns out to be the one which we always aspire we deal with such people, such closed ones in our daily lives and it does impacts our entire soul, health, our routine everything we can say . Because we have done everything to make it work !

But at last once we see red flags we should also understand that YOU means yes giving urself a priority is also very important because if you are damaged, broken completely from inside for the sake of working and making things good for the one who actually never bothered or even used you according to his benefits can also drain you completely.I still say its not at all easy to write to speak , about this it takes a lots of efforts to come out if that zone where you considered that one person to be yiut everything but every time you end up getting disappointed. But at the end its very important for us , whoever is going through tough phase of life the need to understand life fiesnt syop here whatever has to meant it will come to you in beautiful ways . If you have done things right for the other person you will get acknowledged. You need to trust the proces . You need to trust yourself , you need to maintain dignity , smile because these are the most precious things which we cant let it go , for the sake of others happiness . I know its hard but yea slowly and steadily things will take time and will end up its own pace.life is one time beautiful gift, love everyone, smile , spread positivity and dont end your life by supporting toxicity in your daily routine or into your own life.

@parvatipharswan74

Soldier : Honour for Country and everyone !

We being Indians basically hear a lots of stories about independence, before and after off-course and celebrate it with pride , joy and happiness . This is eventually the best part of everyone’s life .

But have we ever heard and felt the pain behind a loss of soldier who has lost his life for the sake of his country and countrymen ?Eventhough if we would have felt it we would have not you know gone through the understanding until and unless we could see the losss in our life . Soldiers are building blocks of our nation . We should prosper them cheer them up, always try to help them eventhough we can’t help them we know . Still we can ask them if we can’t help by anyways . This way we can you know help them 100% but yea give a smile on their faces when they are deployed to other parts of countries feeling sometimes homesickness, abs you know the feeling of enjoying with loved one .